Online BBW dating is one of the best ways to meet new people. Millions of people on curvy dating apps and sites share your romantic hopes. Unfortunately, the reason why most people fail in online chubby dating is easy to solve. Here are the top five mistakes the average male Internet lover is making and how to fix them.
Your BBW dating profile is not a used commercial advertising
In my opinion, one of the most common problems with men's online BBW dating profiles is that they are too sales oriented. Many men list their qualifications as if they were the hallmarks of a used car: "I am a good listener, kind, natural, with fresh tires and cold air... "If you have to sell yourself, you will feel like you can't trust a BBW woman to be interested in you without convincing her.
Instead of a long list of strengths, try to prove them by telling interesting details about your life. Your profile will read more naturally and attractively.
Your online dating photos suck
Before you defend yourself, you should know that in the last 14 years, I've only had three or four clients who have been online plus size dating people who don't need to edit their photos. What makes photos so bad? Here are some of the worst problems: bad lighting, no smiles, apparently cropped women, posing with cars or other material objects, sunglasses and selfies. If your photos can be described with anything I just mentioned, delete them now!
Here are some quick tips to get you started with great dating photos online: take them outdoors during the day. Natural light is better than any flash or bulb. Remove sunglasses (including transition lenses). When a woman can't see your eyes, it's hard for her to connect with you. This problem can also be extended to hats. They can cast shadows on your face, making it hard to see you. Don't take pictures of yourself. Call a friend and ask them to do it. Your arms are too short to take selfies, and you always seem distracted.
You're a machine gun
I have had countless calls and letters from men complaining that they send 10, 20 or even 50 emails a week to women and get almost no response. If you are doing it, stop now! As much as many people like to tell you, online dating isn't a Numbers game. Sending emails like machine guns means you're not paying enough attention to the curvy women you're contacting. You may be sending generic messages and may even be cutting and pasting between E-mail messages. The problem is that chubby women are not stupid. They can tell when you haven't actually read their profile or when you've sent the same email to a group of women. Slow down, focus on the perfect match, and send a message that will start the conversation.